Abumbi II, the 11th fon, or king, of Bafut, Cameroon, has close to 100
wives. They weren't all his to start with. According to local
tradition, when a fon dies, his successor inherits all his wives and
then marries his own queens. He inherited 72 of the women from his late father. He has also taken on over 500 children from all of his wives.
"The queens have a great role to play in the fondom," notes Prince Nickson, also of Bafut, noting that it is up to these women behind the man to shape him in his kingly role.
"Behind every successful man must be a very successful, staunch woman," says Abumbi's third wife, Queen Constance.
"Our tradition has it that when you are king, the elderly wives remain
to hand down the tradition to the younger wives, and also to teach the
king the tradition because the king had been a prince, not a king."
Despite the fact that polygamy is legal in Cameroon, the data shows that
there are far fewer polygamous marriages across the African continent.
The practice is being challenged by changing values, the spread of the
Christian faith, the growing appeal of the western way of life but also
the rising costs of having large families. It is against this backdrop
that Cameroon's traditional rulers must walk the fine line between two
often conflicting cultures.
"During colonialism other values came in, of governance, different from
the traditional values we had and therefore there is this constant
conflict between the traditional values and modern western values,"
admits Fon Abumbi II, who has ruled Bafut, the largest fondom in the
region, for 47 years.
Some of the king's wives |
"I understand that we might be quick to judge the lifestyle of the
kings, but just like in the United Kingdom, African kingdoms and kings
are bound to a rich culture and history. (Practices) like inheritance of
all your father's wives is nothing but a moral obligation."
On meeting the queens of Fon Ndofua Zofia II of Babungo -- one of
Cameroon's youngest traditional rulers -- Methu CNN correspondent said:
"All his young wives, forced on him by tradition, spoke fluent English in a French-speaking region and were great marketers."
It is this seeming contradiction that makes life in the fondom
fascinating and confusing. Are they stuck in the past or keeping pace
with the present? Fon Zofoa III doesn't think you have to choose. He may
have "inherited" 72 wives and more than 500 children after his father's
death, but he considers himself a very modern king.
His palace |
"To run a kingdom nowadays in this era, you must be educated because things are moving very fast. Like they used to say, education is light, ignorance is darkness."
Source: CNN
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